Featured Writer on Wellness: Amy Reade

My first book was published almost five years ago, and my biggest emotional challenge is the same today as it was when I started writing seriously: the nagging feeling that I’m not working hard enough.

That I’m not working as hard as other authors.

I’m not sure that the feeling has threatened to derail my writing—if anything, it pushes me to work harder—but it does threaten to rob me of the joy I have doing what I love.

Routines Help Me Deal with the Emotional Challenges of Writing

I have found that sticking to a routine as much as possible is the best way for me to deal with FONWHE (Fear Of Not Working Hard Enough).

If I didn’t have a routine to turn to each day, that feeling of not producing and/or selling as much as other authors do might become overwhelming. But I know when I sit down at the computer every day, I’m on a steady course toward my writing time.

I do all my social media, blog writing, and promotion in the morning, so that leaves my afternoons for working on my WIP (work in progress).

Yoga Helps Boost My Energy for Writing

The physical challenge of writing is a different story, so to speak. For a long time, every day I would settle into my routine with the intention of spending some time before dinner exercising, but often I felt too tired by the end of the day to fit in a workout.

The obvious answer, of course, was to work out earlier in the day, but here’s how my thinking went: if I do that, I might be too tired to work later on. If I’m too tired to work later on, then I won’t be working hard enough (see earlier paragraph)…you get the point.

Several months ago I hurt my foot and I was in an ortho boot for about 8 weeks. I had been walking the dog every day up until that point, but I haven’t walked her since.

My dog, Orly, who makes every day better whether I’m having a good day or not. And she doesn’t care if I’m in shape.

And lest you think my dog is languishing in the house like I am, fear not. My husband is walking her. My foot is healing, but I still can’t go for an entire walk with my dog (and my husband).

That’s where yoga has come in handy. I’ve started doing some yoga with sneakers on to provide some stability for my foot, and I’ve found that I can work up a significant sweat with yoga.

Though it’s not part of my daily routine yet, I’m lucky in that my husband also walks on the treadmill almost every day. And if he can do that, I can do yoga. So I’ve started doing yoga while he’s on the treadmill.

It means taking time out of my routine whenever he’s got time to go on the treadmill, but I’ve found that I’m not exhausted like I thought I would be when I finish. In fact, I’m energized.

So, long story short, yoga has helped improve my energy. And when I have energy, I can increase my productivity.

And while we’re on the subject of productivity, I should note that I’m always hungry when I work. I try not to eat between meals, but when I do, I try to stick to fruit, whole-milk yogurt, nuts, or a little bit of cheese. I really try to stay away from the sweet stuff.

The Keys to Creativity and Productivity: Reading and Naps

The key to creativity, and hence productivity, I think, is reading. Reading every day, everything I can get my hands on.

And one more thing: when I’m tired, I take a nap. Until pretty recently, I would feel this tremendous sense of guilt every time I took a nap, but I’ve managed to shake that off by forcing myself to acknowledge that I don’t work at my best when I’m exhausted.

If I need a nap, I take a nap. My productivity actually increases.

I’ve found that there’s nothing that ruins creativity and productivity faster than being too tired to write a coherent sentence.

Comments from Readers Keep Me Going

I wouldn’t characterize anything as a “darkest moment” since I started writing. There are days that are better than others, but I like to remind myself that I’m doing what I love and really, any day spent doing that is better than a day spent practicing law, which is what I did before writing.

The greatest moments always come when I’m talking to readers, and I especially love it when someone compares my books to those of my literary heroes. Recently one woman came up to me and told me my writing “is just like Victoria Holt’s!” Comments like that give me a reason to smile inside and out.

And comments like that from readers keep me on the path. Comments like that, and of course, the knowledge that I have the coolest job in the world. I get to make up stories for a living. What could be better than that?

Advice for a Young Writer: Great Writers are Great Readers First

I talk to young people quite often and this is what I tell them: read a lot. Find books outside your comfort zone and read those. Read books of different genres. Read all the time, because great writers are great readers first.

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Amy M. Reade is a recovering attorney who discovered, quite by accident, a passion for fiction writing. She has penned eight mysteries and is working on two more, plus a Cape May County historical mystery series. She writes in the Gothic, traditional, contemporary, and cozy mystery subgenres and looks forward to continuing the two series she has begun since December, 2018. She also loves to read, cook, and travel.

She is the USA Today and Wall Street Journal bestselling author of Secrets of Hallstead House, The Ghosts of Peppernell Manor, House of the Hanging Jade, the Malice series, the Juniper Junction Holiday Mystery series, and the Libraries of the World Mystery series.

For more information on Amy and her work, please see her website and Amazon author page, and connect with her on Facebook, Twitter, Pinterest, Instagram, Goodreads, and Bookbub.


The Worst Noel: Christmas is supposed to be a time of peace, love, and joy, but for Lilly Carlsen, this Christmas is murder.

As a single mom, small business owner, and president of the local Chamber of Commerce, the last thing she needs is to find a dead body on the floor of her jewelry shop on the busiest shopping day of the year. And as if that isn’t enough, Lilly has to deal with a deadbeat ex-husband, a mother with declining mental health, and two teenagers.

But when a second body turns up, Lilly finds herself squarely in the crosshairs of suspicion. Can she figure out who killed the victims before she becomes one herself? And will her family’s Christmas be merry…or scary?

Available on Amazon and wherever books are sold.

Dead, White, and Blue: Summer is getting hotter in Juniper Junction, Colorado.

There’s a firebug on the loose, the townspeople are nervous, and Lilly Carlsen, single mom to two teenagers, has even more to worry about. She’s in charge of the Independence Day celebration, her mother’s mental health is declining, and her son is getting ready to leave for college.

But things are about to get even hotter: when a bistro owner dies at the celebration and Lilly’s best friend is charged with murder, events start hitting close to home. It’s up to Lilly to help clear her friend’s name while at the same time dealing with her mom’s worsening forgetfulness as well as a coming-of-age issue under her own roof.

Available at Amazon and wherever books are sold.

14 Comments

  1. I enjoyed reading the blog and of course I love the picture. It really is a good one of the 3 of us.

  2. Very enjoyable. Thank you. Wellness & writing – a good topic. You have so much motivation. I truly envy your accomplishments. I’ve spent all weekend on my WIP and I am miserably behind you. I have to remind myself it’s “all relative,” and I can’t slow down because i feel I’m behind others.

    1. Hi, Linda,

      Thanks for the kind words. I know you to be someone who works very hard, and I’ve always been impressed by your ability to hold down a stressful job and write books, too. “Comparison” should be a dirty word unless it’s used as a positive motivator and I think authors have a tendency to compare themselves with others all the time.

      I hope you took some time over the weekend to do something fun, too!

  3. Great post, I’m writing my first novel and am writing two blogs, so I am trying to write daily alongside reading more. I also have two small children and a part time job.. very busy. I’m trying to make an effort now to read everyday, before I had stopped, but now realise now necessary reading is.

    Trying to make time to relax is not always easy,, I’ve spent a lot of time today on sharing groups., blogs are alot of work.. hoping to spend quality time with the kids tomorrow away from my lap top.

    1. Hi, Marian,

      Congratulations on accomplishing so much! I’ve found that I’ve had to cut down my participation in groups online. I wish I had time to spend on all of them, but I just don’t. My advice would be to figure out those where you’re getting the biggest bang for your time and concentrate on increasing your participation in those. If others have to fall by the wayside, that’s okay. I know of at least one author who went through her extensive friend list and ruthlessly unfriended everyone whom she didn’t know in person. It was hard, but necessary, and it wasn’t personal. She just needed to free up some space in her mind and online.

      Good luck with your book and your other projects. And remember, if you don’t take care of yourself, you can’t take care of anyone else.

  4. Hi, Pat,

    Thank you! I think writing every day is key. Even if it’s not related to your WIP, even if it’s just a letter to a friend, it’s important to write every day. It keeps the creative juices flowing–if writers don’t write often, it’s easy to forget what’s already been written and then it takes valuable time to go back and try to remember where one left off.

    I’ve been keeping a weekly schedule, too, and it’s working like a charm.

  5. Great post, and a timely one for me. So many things are keeping me from putting words on paper. It’s all about discipline and an established routine to get everything done.

    Exercise definitely should be factored in. My purely anecdotal story is when I work out during Jeopardy, I get more of the answers correct! 🙂

    1. Thank you, Pat! Actually, last week I wasn’t able to get much done because of other things that took up Every. Single. Minute. of my days. And I felt terrible! When I can get those daily word counts in, I find that I’m a much more agreeable person to be around. Ask anyone in my family–they would agree.

      I think it makes total sense that you get more answers on Jeopardy! when you’re working out–there’s increased blood flow to your brain, and it’s helping you think better. I think I need to start watching that while I’m on the spin bike.

      I’m glad you stopped by!

  6. I do my best writing in the morning. My biggest problem is interruptions. Once the morning is gone, I can’t seem to get back into writing. I have three dogs and they’re very demanding, like right now. We had the carpets cleaned and they’re outside, wanting IN! I wish I could oblige them, but since I can’t, they chose to bark. And bark. I’ve tried setting up a routine, as you mentioned, but it just doesn’t work for me. Ah, well, the best part of writing is enjoying it. And I do. And so do you. Some of your earlier books remind me of the Victoria Holt type of story, and that really is a compliment. So write when it feels right to you. And take care of your foot. : )

    1. Hi, Marja,

      You’ve hit on the most important point–you have to enjoy what you’re doing. If you don’t, it shows in the writing. And if you do, it also shows in the writing. I can tell from reading your books that you’re having fun with the characters and situations (I just started People Lookin’ Half Dead and I love it so far, so I know you did, too).

      I can’t tell you how I appreciate your comments about my books reminding you of Victoria Holt’s writing. That is the ultimate compliment, and I thank you for it. My hope is to continue to write standalones in that same vein and I can’t wait to get back to it!

  7. Amy,
    I really enjoyed your post.
    For me, it boils down to two things: making my writing a priority, which means writing every morning when I have a book in progress, and scheduling my day/week. One of my most valuable tools is a desktop scheduler where I list what I need to do each day. For example, today I need to begin the final edits on my WIP, “Murder at Maple Ridge.” Then, I have a few errands and some things I need to do for my mother. 🙂

    1. Hi, Pat,

      Thank you! I think writing every day is key. Even if it’s not related to your WIP, even if it’s just a letter to a friend, it’s important to write every day. It keeps the creative juices flowing–if writers don’t write often, it’s easy to forget what’s already been written and then it takes valuable time to go back and try to remember where one left off.

      I’ve been keeping a weekly schedule, too, and it’s working like a charm.

  8. Thank you for having me here today, Colleen! The gremlins got into our wifi today and I haven’t been able to get online to respond to anyone or anything. So apologies for the delay!

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      Isn’t that always the way? Perfect timing huh? No worries, Amy. Thanks for sharing on Writing and Wellness! :O)

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